Tyler Perry Shares A Letter To A Friend

A LETTER TO A FRIEND

I wrote this note privately to a friend of mine whose father has never been there for him. Even though he's not a kid anymore and is a husband and soon to be a father himself, he's still being affected by it. I told him I would share it with you because I know that there are millions of you in this same situation. I used to be there too. Here's what I wrote to him.

Hey bud,

Your dad is getting older and facing his mortality. He's going to become a different man soon. In life, we all become different people. At 20, you're not the same person you are at 50, and if you are, something is wrong. We are built to evolve. Life is an oven that will incubate us into change. Most times it's for the better, although there are some people that are so resistant to it that sometimes they won't change. But if he remains the same that's ok too.

My challenge to you my friend is to start looking at your father like a person. Not the man you see but the boy he was, how he grew up, what he went through. Realize that just like you have had, he has had his own life, pain, heartbreak, struggles, secrets, disappointments and sadness. In other words, he had a life and a story long before you were born and in that life he wasn't given the tools to be what you needed him to be.

As a parent your job is to help your child pack a suitcase for this journey called life. Just like when you go on a trip you pack everything you need. This is the same thing. You must help that child pack love, faith, confidence, patience, joy, hope, how to give love, how to accept it, faith and God. All these things and so much more should be in that suitcase and if they aren't, that child is going to have a tough life. Find out what's in your father's suitcase. It will help you understand. What's in his suitcase is not an excuse for the way he treats you, but it is a part of your understanding of him.

I know he's a closed door and I know you don't know much about him, but if he won't tell you then maybe there is a family member on his side of the family that can tell you his story. His past is important in understanding your present. Do you understand? At any rate, I don't care who or what he is. I'm just glad he was used to bring such a great and awesome soul to this world, whether he will ever know it or not. I thank him for that. I thank him for you. I love you my friend.A LETTER TO A FRIEND

I wrote this note privately to a friend of mine whose father has never been there for him. Even though he's not a kid anymore and is a husband and soon to be a father himself, he's still being affected by it. I told him I would share it with you because I know that there are millions of you in this same situation. I used to be there too. Here's what I wrote to him.

Hey bud,

Your dad is getting older and facing his mortality. He's going to become a different man soon. In life, we all become different people. At 20, you're not the same person you are at 50, and if you are, something is wrong. We are built to evolve. Life is an oven that will incubate us into change. Most times it's for the better, although there are some people that are so resistant to it that sometimes they won't change. But if he remains the same that's ok too.

My challenge to you my friend is to start looking at your father like a person. Not the man you see but the boy he was, how he grew up, what he went through. Realize that just like you have had, he has had his own life, pain, heartbreak, struggles, secrets, disappointments and sadness. In other words, he had a life and a story long before you were born and in that life he wasn't given the tools to be what you needed him to be.

As a parent your job is to help your child pack a suitcase for this journey called life. Just like when you go on a trip you pack everything you need. This is the same thing. You must help that child pack love, faith, confidence, patience, joy, hope, how to give love, how to accept it, faith and God. All these things and so much more should be in that suitcase and if they aren't, that child is going to have a tough life. Find out what's in your father's suitcase. It will help you understand. What's in his suitcase is not an excuse for the way he treats you, but it is a part of your understanding of him.

I know he's a closed door and I know you don't know much about him, but if he won't tell you then maybe there is a family member on his side of the family that can tell you his story. His past is important in understanding your present. Do you understand? At any rate, I don't care who or what he is. I'm just glad he was used to bring such a great and awesome soul to this world, whether he will ever know it or not. I thank him for that. I thank him for you. I love you my friend.

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Hank Williams Jr. to Headline New Year’s Eve ‘Bash on Broadway’

Music City is getting the lineup in place for the 5th Annual New Year’s Eve ‘Bash on Broadway.’ There are still artists to be set, but the Nashville Convention & Visitors Corp has announced that Hank Williams Jr. will headline the event.

This is a special occasion for the entertainer, who doesn’t typically perform on New Year’s because it is the anniversary of the death of his father, Hank Wiiliams.

“This year is going to be very special on New Year’s Eve,” Williams says in a press release. “December 31 will mark the 60th anniversary of Daddy’s death. For years, I have not performed on New Year’s Eve in honor of my father, but this year is a monumental year in the history of Hank Williams. If Daddy would have lived, he would have been 90 years old this year. I hope Music City is ready to boogie woogie, because Bocephus is going [to] bring the party to Nashville.”

The Bash on Broadway is one of the largest New Year’s celebrations in the country, spanning multiple days filled with free music and a music note drop to ring in the New Year at midnight.